“Now I, Paul, appeal to you with the gentleness and kindness of Christ—though I realize you think I am timid in person and bold only when I write from far away.” II Corinthians 10:1
Persuading Famous to comply with my wishes is generally not a difficult task. He knows the difference between a sympathetic, imploring tone, and a stern and frustrated one. So were I to stand at the door and yell for him to come inside, he most certainly would figure he should just stay seated in the grass. On the other hand, if I, in an encouraging, gentler tone, let it be known that coming inside right that instant would result in a tasty biscuit, more than likely he would gleefully step into the house (knowing I rarely would withhold a treat once it was offered).
Paul points out that there is a heavenly capacity for Christ’s goodness, his mercy, and grace and that we should model his character with boldness. How often we forget the power of his love! Instead, we resort to ostracism, legality, and inciting fear “in the name of love.” By shouting God’s revenge, punishment, and anger to motivate people to change their ways probably encourages more people than not to stay out of the church. Far more certain is the probability we are walking in Christ’s shoes when we are meeting needs and ministering in his name.
Lord, please help me to not set myself up as judge, but as servant, and to not raise my voice so loudly that I cannot hear Your own.